{"id":5838,"date":"2021-09-02T13:39:45","date_gmt":"2021-09-02T17:39:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/todaysveterinarynurse.com\/?post_type=articles&p=5838"},"modified":"2022-03-23T18:22:07","modified_gmt":"2022-03-23T18:22:07","slug":"fostering-an-open-home-and-an-open-heart","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/navc.sitepreview.app\/todaysveterinarynurse.com\/personal-professional-development\/fostering-an-open-home-and-an-open-heart\/","title":{"rendered":"Fostering: An Open Home and an Open Heart"},"content":{"rendered":"

One day a man was walking along<\/span> <\/b>the beach<\/span><\/em> when he noticed a boy picking something up and gently throwing it into the ocean. Approaching the boy, he asked, \u201cWhat are you doing?\u201d The youth replied, \u201cThrowing starfish back into the ocean. The surf is up and the tide is going out. If I don\u2019t throw them back, they\u2019ll die.\u201d \u201cSon,\u201d the man said, \u201cdon\u2019t you realize there are miles and miles of beach and hundreds of starfish? You can\u2019t make a difference!\u201d <\/i>After listening politely, the boy bent down, picked up another starfish, and threw it back into the surf. Then, smiling at the man, he said, \u201cI made a difference for that\u00a0one.\u201d<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n

This story by Loren Eiseley1<\/sup> is one that has become a part of me and defines why I chose a life of service in the veterinary field. As a certified veterinary technician for over 25 years, I cannot see myself doing anything differently. Many people tried to tell me \u201cthe pay is ridiculously low,\u201d \u201cthe hours are incredibly long,\u201d \u201cit is <\/span>a thankless job.\u201d I did not care. I found my life\u2019s calling.<\/p>\n

The thank yous I received rarely came from an owner. They came from the animal that I was caring for. The appreciation was in their eyes.<\/span><\/p>\n

My personal time is no different than my time at the hospital. I surround myself with a variety of adopted rescue pets ranging from cats and dogs to abandoned birds and rabbits.<\/span><\/p>\n

Much like my start in veterinary medicine, I thought being a veterinarian was the only way I could get involved in the profession. I never knew there was such a thing as a veterinary technician. Similarly, I never thought I could do anything but adopt an animal. I never knew there were other roles I could play in a homeless pet\u2019s journey.<\/span><\/p>\n

A Glimpse Into Fostering<\/h3>\n

I had never heard of fostering until an abandoned dog named Icon came into my life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Icon was a young, exuberant pitbull who was on a 14-day hold at our hospital. I saw firsthand how this dog started developing \u201ckennel rot.\u201d Kennel rot is a non-technical term that is defined as a pet that starts to go stir crazy from being in a kennel for long periods of time without enough exercise. Because of his unknown rabies status, hospital staff could not take him on extended walks or runs outside of the hospital property. On my lunch hour, I would take him to our hospital\u2019s 12\u00d712 fenced-in yard and run him in circles or throw a ball for him.<\/span><\/p>\n

I reached out to rescues that could potentially take him. Pitbulls, as you may know, have a reputation. The hysteria associated with this breed had already begun 10 years ago. I reached out to every pitbull and non\u2013breed-specific rescue I could find. The non\u2013breed-specific rescues said no because of his breed and the pitbull rescues were all full.<\/span><\/p>\n

One of the pitbull rescues I spoke to said if we could find someone to foster Icon until a spot opened in their rescue, they would take him. I was so happy!\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

However, that feeling did not last long. Realistically, I was a technician that worked 10- to 12-hour days, up to 6\u00a0days a week. I had, at the time, 2 dogs that conformed to my long work days. Icon needed a home with a fenced yard or someone who could give him lots of exercise\u2014not move from one cage to another. I was not the right foster for him.<\/span><\/p>\n

I asked everyone I knew. No one could take him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Before my eyes his behavior became worse and worse. One day at work he pulled one of the technicians down and she broke her finger. My good-natured boss and medical director knew how attached I was to Icon and said this was not fair to him. If we didn\u2019t find the right fit, we needed to make a decision sooner rather than later regarding his future.<\/span><\/p>\n

I prayed something or someone would come through. Nothing did.<\/span><\/p>\n

The following week Icon was euthanized surrounded by love and licking his favorite peanut butter in his Kong toy.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was heartbroken.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of going over in my mind what I could have done differently, I used Icon as a catalyst to become involved in fixing the problem.<\/span><\/p>\n

Being a Bridge<\/h3>\n

I did not have a lot of extra money, but what I did have was a house full of agreeable pets who acclimated to any situation or animal, lots of crates, and a spare bedroom. This is both a blessing and a curse because that gave me the green light to bring anything home. This is not a good combination for someone with a bleeding heart. Most veterinary professionals I know would take home at least 1 more animal than they should.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fostering is a way to avoid keeping every animal I want to save.\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

The benefit of a foster-based rescue is that the pet has a safe place to prepare for their new life. Does the foster dog get along with cats? Other dogs? Kids? Do they have an issue with men in hats? Do they have manners? Are they crate trained? Are they a resource guarder? This information is invaluable when trying to match up a rescue pet with an unknown history to a new family.<\/span><\/p>\n

These important questions can be answered during this animal\u2019s time in your home. A foster parent will get to know the pet day by day, peeling back their layers and <\/span>discovering what their temperament and personality are.<\/p>\n

Not counting the neighborhood animals I took care of as a kid, I have been fostering for over 10 years now. Many people, including colleagues, friends, and acquaintances, still commonly ask me, \u201cHow do you foster? I could never do that. I would never let the foster go!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Truthfully, it is at times very hard to let them go\u2014and sometimes very easy.<\/span><\/p>\n

If Not You, Who?<\/h3>\n

Fostering can be short- or long-term. There are kittens, puppies, adults, and seniors of every make and model that need someone. Do you have a certain breed that you love and understand? Are senior couch potatoes more your speed? If you can not have dogs or cats where you live, how about giving daily enrichment to small animals such as a hamster or a rabbit?<\/span><\/p>\n

The internet is a wonderful thing. There are many resources available to anyone looking to find more information on how to begin the process of fostering a pet. Since volunteers with limited free time staff most rescues, narrowing down your questions is a huge help to them.<\/span><\/p>\n

An example of a well-run foster-based rescue is Great Dog Rescue in Andover, Massachusetts. I have fostered for them for over 9 years. They have put together a great handout for first-time fosters (<\/span>gdrne.com\/fostering<\/span><\/a><\/strong>).<\/span><\/p>\n

Another resource is Petfinder. Petfinder is an online database that works with over 11<\/span>\u2009<\/span>000 animal rescues and shelters across the United States, Canada, and Mexico. They have compiled a few well-written articles with information, questions, and answers on fostering.<\/span><\/p>\n